Archive for December, 2008
Wednesday, December 31st, 2008
I have talked about being a Male Escort for a while now. I have mentioned that it is a business that requires lots of class, ethics, patience and most of all, fortune. I have given tips about performing in the bedroom. I have given advice about sharing a dinner table with high end, sophisticated women that are seeking men with top notch manners and the greatest of charm. In the next paragraph, I will give a few tips on how to behave in a public function with the woman that is paying you a bunch to be attached to your arm.
First of all you have to ask yourself ¨Why is this woman paying for a Male Escort?¨. The answer is because she is looking for a professional. It is that simple! She is looking for a man that acts like the classiest man in the world, a man that will not leave her unattended throughout the whole night. A man that is 100% devoted to her. After all, she is paying him lots of money to behave this way. Then you have to ask yourself ¨Why did she pick me? ¨She picked you because she obviously saw the qualities I mentioned above in you. She met you and realized that you were the perfect man for the night she was about to embark on. What you need to do now is use that confidence and charm that landed her, on her colleagues, peers or friends, whatever people she is going to have you meet. You need to introduce yourself firmly and with etiquette, but do not for any reason take the attention away from her. For you, the whole night is about her. Remain in the background but not too far behind. Stay engaged in conversations so when asked a question you are not out of the loop, but do not talk too much. I cannot repeat it enough that the night is about her. Follow these few tips and your Male Gigolo adventure should go very well.
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Tuesday, December 30th, 2008
Its not a science that the Male Escort Business is something that every male would like to get into. Lets think about why that is. We have the fact that we receive calls from women we do not know and they actually pay us for our escort services. Then, they take us out to the fanciest resaturants and wine and dine us until we explode. And what goes on in those conversatrions? In the next piece, i will tell you what goes on.
You sit down and tell yourself, ¨What do i do with this woman¨? The answer is easy. It lies within all of the things that mpm had taught us. You have to treat a lady the way a Male Gigolo intended to treat a lady. Thats why they call us Male Escorts. We escort them to the places they wnat to be escorted to. And what else do we do? We charm them, pleasure them, and make them feel like they are the best thing since sliced bread. We do this because it is our business and we love it. How many people can say that they LOVE what they do. Not too many. We end up meeting very wealthy people that create connections for ourselves and our colleagues. These people lend us a hand and give us the means on how to become the most successful Male Escort this planet has to offer. We have to treat them like clients, not like women. We want to love them because our Male instinct comes out, but we have to remember that they are paying us for our escort services. They are the ones that make the rules and they are the ones that makes the engine go ¨choo choo¨ Face it. They own us.
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Monday, December 29th, 2008
It all began with men. Men were the ones who had a family or were single but needed to go ahead and cross that line of hiring companions or sexual partners. Slowly through the years, women started to find this escort trend a bit helpful. I am speaking of professional, high powered women mostly over the age of 45, who were tired of the same amateur companions that were never interested in her and never payed enough attention. These authoritative women needed to compete in the real world with their male colleagues that were obviously doing the same thing, which was hire beautiful, young, sexy women to be their trophies while meeting with their business counterparts. So more and more women decided to do the same thing.
These women were tired of dating losers, they wanted professional men that would cater to their every need. In some cases in which the Male Escort Agency provided non-sexual services, the Male Gigolos job would become a lot harder because there was no sex envolved. Sex makes it easier because if you are good at that, the night can fly by. But if you need to just be a great companion, this is where the true successful Male Escort shines and high end women know this. You have to listen, listen and then listen some more. 100% of your time and attention has to be aimed at her. A regular ¨Joe Shmoe¨ would not act this way and these ladies know that. They know that following the Male Escort path guarantees them a great night out. In 20-30 years, the number of women using male gigolos will rise by 50%. Great job guys!
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Sunday, December 28th, 2008
I can imagine a standard Male Escort trying to pleasure a female in the bedroom. He would probably be performing his normal acts of ¨goodness¨ and charm, but he would probably also be thinking about himself as well. The following tips are for those Male Gigolos out there that need that extra training in the bedroom. Believe me when I say it, the way you behave in the bedroom is second to the way you act in public with her and towards her.
Think you yourself this question, What should a Male Gigolo do first, after he and his date set foot into that beautiful suite that she is paying a bundle for? Well, the first thing you should do is ask to take her coat. Then you should order some drinks or pour some if the room already comes with a nice bottle of her favorite champagne or a nice brandy. Then strike up some good conversation. What i mean by this is talk about her. Ask her questions that will enable her to talk, talk and then talk some more. Women love a good listener. After you have had some drinks and you can tell she is feeling naughty, ask her if she would like a massage. There is a 0% chance she will say no. What woman in their right mind will not accept a massage from a guy she is paying for? No woman! Next, when it is time to get busy, the MOST important thing that you need to remember is that it is all about pleasing her. You come second, ALWAYS. Please her and then please her again and again. Remember that she is a client and if you please her well and often, she Hill always return. Let her climax to her full potencial and then when you feel you are ready, that is when you can ¨go to town¨. Finish off by doing what she wants to do afterwards. Feel her out. Some women like to yap after sex and (believe it or not) some do not. Let her have her way and you can take that Male Escorting style all the way to the bank.
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Saturday, December 27th, 2008
I am pretty sure that the procedures and etiquette that we follow when we are dining in a fancy restaurant are the ones that we learned watching our parents. Whether or not we grew up in a small town eating at a diner or if we were dining at the Waldorf Astoria, our table manners are what our parents taught us. I will try to give you a few pointers of how a successful Male Escort shares his meal with a high end client.
First of all, when dining with a sophisticated lady that has just put up a whole bunch of money to be in your company, you need to be aware that the whole night is about her. I just want to be clear; the WHOLE night is about her. When you sit down to eat with her, you have to be charming form the money she sees you yeah, but the ¨real¨ charm is when that valet takes the car. You have to open the door for her, tell her gently that you made reservations in the corner table where no one would bother you. This is the type of stuff that Male Gigolos do. They have an extra attention that other males do not want to display. They have it, we all do, but it’s the want or need to let that attention out the separates a Male Escort from a standard John Doe. Then, when she orders, try to order something that coincides with her dish; meaning that it should never be the same one, because that shows you cannot make a decision, but it should be in the same ballpark to show her that you have something in common. The conversation should be about her unless she asks or tells otherwise. Remember, she’s paying you! Follow these short tips and your Male Escort days will last for a long time.
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Friday, December 26th, 2008
I have mentioned in my previous pieces that being a Male Gigolo is a profession that needs to be maintained on the ¨down low¨. Meaning that secrecy is just as important as being charming. Male Escorting has its rewards. You get to meet sophisticated women that will wine and dine you all over the world if you play your cards right. But if you do not maintain a high level of secrecy, the business you put your time into building can come crashing down on you before you can say ¨¨Can I get your coat¨?
Many high end Male Gigolos are very good at keeping their secret life from their loved ones. People that care about you are more susceptible to your lies because they trust you and probably would not dare dream that you are basically selling your body for pleasure and some sort of erotic control. So you can go ahead and tell your loved ones that you are going to meet a friend or hanging out with the guys and they’ll most likely fall for it. But then you have the jealous colleagues from your other job or acquaintances that you keep at a distance who are the ones that are not sure why all of a sudden you have new designer suits, suede shoes and a Mercedes. These are the folks that you need to worry about. They will not hesitate in sneaking a peek at your second cell phone just because they were wondering all along what it was for. Or maybe one of them will follow you so they can get dirt on you and expose you. What you need to do is try not to tell people you have a second phone, and if they do see you with one, tell them that your girlfriend makes you have one for her. Also, always choose restaurants that are not in your local hang outs. And most important, always create an alias. Choose a sexy name that is not hard to forget and that women will like. Remember, charm and good looks are only a part of the Male Escorting puzzle, secrecy and a low profile is just as important.
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Wednesday, December 24th, 2008
The Male Escorting industry is a business that enables guys that feel like nobodies become somebody. Sometimes, a man already feels like somebody but wants to see how much of a somebody he can be. He wants to try to push himself to the next level. For some guys, the next level can mean joining the Ultimate Fighting Championship, and to some, that contact can come via the gigolo business. Either way, a man feels like he is on top of the world if he conquers the ring or the bedroom.
I can tell you a bit about Hamilton Hawkes, a very famous Male Escorting Agency, that was established in the early 2000s which prides itself on being the best companions in the market. Peter Whitcombe, its founder, says that some people get it mixed up thinking that being a Male Escort is about the sex. He says that they offer a companionship service. It’s a non-sexual service. He also mentions that the reason that he wanted to begin his Male Escort service is because he felt it in his guts. He started by interviewing successful Hotel chains and they all confirmed that there was a need that ladies were requiring and that is the companionship of a nice man. Peter remembers meeting a high-ranking female executive that says that they do not have the time to be dating strange losers on those nights that their presence is required in high-level events. They want a charming, professional man with ethics that is ready to listen. Even though they are important in their professional lives, they want to feel just as important in their private life, and being a successful Male Gigolo almost guarantees them that feeling. After all, who can blame her? We all would love to feel wanted and important.
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Wednesday, December 24th, 2008
I have mentioned in my previous pieces that being a Male Gigolo is a profession that needs to be maintained on the ¨down low¨. Meaning that secrecy is just as important as being charming. Male Escorting has its rewards. You get to meet sophisticated women that will wine and dine you all over the world if you play your cards right. But if you do not maintain a high level of secrecy, the business you put your time into building can come crashing down on you before you can say ¨¨Can I get your coat¨?
Many high end Male Gigolos are very good at keeping their secret life from their loved ones. People that care about you are more susceptible to your lies because they trust you and probably would not dare dream that you are basically selling your body for pleasure and some sort of erotic control. So you can go ahead and tell your loved ones that you are going to meet a friend or hanging out with the guys and they’ll most likely fall for it. But then you have the jealous colleagues from your other job or acquaintances that you keep at a distance who are the ones that are not sure why all of a sudden you have new designer suits, suede shoes and a Mercedes. These are the folks that you need to worry about. They will not hesitate in sneaking a peek at your second cell phone just because they were wondering all along what it was for. Or maybe one of them will follow you so they can get dirt on you and expose you. What you need to do is try not to tell people you have a second phone, and if they do see you with one, tell them that your girlfriend makes you have one for her. Also, always choose restaurants that are not in your local hang outs. And most important, always create an alias. Choose a sexy name that is not hard to forget and that women will like. Remember, charm and good looks are only a part of the Male Escorting puzzle, secrecy and a low profile is just as important.
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Tuesday, December 23rd, 2008
It is a business that can provide you lots of money, notoriety and to put it simple, sex. Being a Male Escort is not for everyone and those who decide to pursue it will probably end up a broke gigolo. But to those of who end up being successful have to choose between doing it legally, or doing it illegally. While doing it illegally can bring you more of a “rush”, you can suffer dire consequences if you get caught. The following story is true and it is of an illegal Male Escorting ring in Bangalore that was masquerading as a massage parlor.
It all began with a female journalist that wanted to get herself a really “juicy” article. She decided to call a phone number that was attached to an ad that read “Crazy Escort and Massage Service and party get together total entertainment” which was picked up by a man named Paresh who offered Male Escort services. She asked for three and the man said she would get a call back. After a while, she receives the call with the monetary figures and questions about the address. At the same time, Vinod, the man who called her, told her that she would be in grave danger if she alerted the authorities. Obviously being a journalist, she went straight to the cops, had them wait at the hotel of her choice and had them arrest two middle aged men for prostitution. The case has been registered and the gigolos will stand in front of the jurisdictional court.
So you see, if you decide to be a Male Escort the illegal way, the riches can be plenty, but the consequences can be embarrassing and very disclosing. If you get caught, the odds of ever following the path of a Male Gigolo again are slim to none.
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Monday, December 22nd, 2008
Once in a while, you can look out the window and think to yourself about what you want to do with your life. You can choose to go to school or live with your parents until you decide what to do. I’m here to tell you about being a Male Escort. Its one of the best independent jobs of all time. You get to make your own hours, see who you want, and spend money like its water.
You can look it up in the net, open up the paper and look at the want ads or simply know someone and ask them if it’s ok for you to try it out. This is the scenario that interests me most. Imagine lying in your bed and asking to yourself what you want to be. Everyone knows that men love to please every woman that they can, but does every man have what it takes to be a gigolo? I say that they do, but we have to find it deep in our soul. We have to know that every woman wants to be with us and that they would pay for our services. This is the type of confidence that we have to show. Being an independent male escort not only depends on the alarm clock that you set or the
Egg whites you eat everyday to be thick and cut. It depends on your character, your charm, your knowledge of women, your smile. I want you to let go of you fear and try to act like a male escort next time you go to a club. Flirt with your eyes, attract women with your personality, and act as if you are the best thing since sliced bread. I guarantee you will not regret it.
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Sunday, December 21st, 2008
If you did not know it, being a successful Male Escort is a job that can come with many fine quirks. You get to meet all types of women, dine in the finest of restaurants, go to the best shows, meet famous people (if you are a high end escort) and finally, make tons of cash. The women can range from unsatisfied middle aged housewives, to retired widows that are looking for a “sugar daddy” or a trophy if you will. But the following paragraph will be about a Male Escort which also escorts virtually, in SL (Second Life). He tells us a bit of what it is like to be in SL and the difference to RL (Real Life).
Minty Beachem is a flirtatious male gigolo who has been in the business for years. He mentions that he got into the SL gig by interacting and always finding ways to meet new people. He also states that being in the presence of good company requires a certain personality. Since he is an incorrigible flirt, it is easy for him to find female partners to share some time with. He says that it is very easy to lose perspective between the two types of escorting because you do have to interact differently. In SL, you need to be very literate for it to work out since it does take both sides to make it happen in a positive manner. In Real Life, it is easier to get someone going that might be a bit shy at first. He also mentions that it gets difficult to separate the “off-shift” relationships to the relationships he forms to make money. But he has gotten used to it and has slowly mastered the difference. As a matter of fact, he says that his SL is the reason that his RL is doing so well. Since he had to put so much time and effort in the Cyber escort part, his Real Life escorting ways became sharper and plentiful. He finished by answering if it was difficult becoming a successful gigolo and this is what he said: “If you’re literate, have an ok skin and shape, not hard at all”. I guess it’s just easy for some people.
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Saturday, December 20th, 2008
After writing several articles regarding the Male Escort industry, I have learned quite a bit. I realize that becoming a Male Gigolo is a lifestyle that most of us would love to be part of but it is simply a way of life that is too risky for the general male population to dive into. It requires a personality and character that not every man possesses. You need too be charming before having the body of a Greek God. You need to get to know your female clients unlike any other females you have gotten to know or have forgotten to know in the past. You need to know how to handle your incoming cash flow because it can come in bunches as easy as it can be a “dry river”. The way you handle yourself in public gatherings is something that will definitely stick in your clients mind. After all, most of your clients will be of the older type ladies with lots of “high class” money to spend and they will have no problem showering you with gifts, trips, booze, food, etc., if you act like you are worth every penny she is throwing at you.
Therefore, after being around this business for a while, you need to come up with Ads that will help promote your style of life. These ads need to be posted in “easy to find places” and need to be clear and simple. You need to provide very clear contact information in order for the client to be able to access your escort services easily. Here is an example of an independent male escort ad that is very simple and to the point:
Dear all readers.
I am a male escort,
I’m 6 ft, 210, and I’m average built. Dark Hair. Brown eyes. Down to earth, Sweet, I will do anything to help anybody. I don’t smoke, or do any drugs. Anything is free game,
If any of u ladies are looking for a date or fun. Please feel free to contact me at goodreason_726@hotmail.com
We can go over the prices, if they don’t work out we can always try to make them work, I will make it affordable, and u get to see pics of me, when we start chatting. My name is John.
It is an Ad that gives a bit of a physical description and a bit of detail about the John, the male escort. Notice that there is no last name. All those things can be given on a “get to know you better basis”. Also notice that there is no talk of money. That can be arranged in further talks or possible meetings. Be patient when meeting your client. Do not seem to anxious. If you do things right the women will come by the boat loads.
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Friday, December 19th, 2008
What you need to know is that being a successful Male Escort is about not discriminating and accepting any type of client as long as they pay well. You have to realize that there will be calls coming in from all kinds of women. There will be some attractive women looking for a charming gigolo, but most of the requests for your pleasurable services will come from veteran ladies that are either widowed or separated. They could have had their moment in the sun about twenty five years ago, but now they are just old women who have lots of cash to throw around and would love to be seen with a trophy around her arm.
Perfect example is veteran actress Lauren Bacall. She is way past her prime at eighty three years old and she has no problem admitting that having a Male Escort would be kind of nice. She caught on to the idea from her last movie The Walker. She portrays an aging socialite who hires an independent Male Escort for his young, handsome looks. She mentions that they would come in handy sometime and they definitely have a function. She credited the Reagan Administration for showing her just how handy a professional gigolo could be. That she knew Jerry Zipkin (Nancy Reagan’s escort) really well and he was very busy. She also says that it would be nice to go to the theatre with someone by her side. But unfortunately, she just doesn’t know any.
Therefore, if you want to become a successful professional gigolo and you come across this information, you would not think twice about picking up your phone and calling Lauren Bacall. This is a woman that has made tons of money in her very successful acting career. She will pay top dollar for a charming, attractive young gigolo. I do not believe that Ms. Bacall will do much waiting.
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Thursday, December 18th, 2008
Let me tell you about a Male Escort. It is impossible to think that you can be a gigolo and not get away with it. You are in the limelight 24-7 the best places, the best food, and obviously the best company. Women pay you to be with them. Have you really tought about it? Really! Think abot the fact that all you have to do is put on your best outfit, show up with a smile on your face and be the most charming guy on the face of the earth. Sounds simple right?
Waking up in the morning is easy. But waking up in the morning knowing that you are on top of the world is a lot easier. Let me make it a lot simpler for you. Imagine getting a call from the woman of your dreams at around 9am. She tells you she wants to meet and she tells you she wants your meat. What are your steps? You arrange a place. You dress as fancy as you can. If she is your first client, you are sweating and going nuts about the encounter. Do you talk about the money first? How do you greet her? The answer is a lot more obvious than you think. Even though being proactive is a cliche, it is the most important thing when it comes down to being an independent male escort. You have to get out there and make yourself known. Let everyone know that you are the best thing since sliced bread and that the women in your realm cannot live without you. Do not be afraid to let your personality shine.
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Wednesday, December 17th, 2008
There are many things out there that can provide information about being a successful Male Escort. There are online trainings, websites with tips and “know- hows”, one on one sessions with real life gigolos, there are even books written by independent Male Escorts and escorts that work for an escort agency. All of these ways might work for you as much as they can make you go broke in less than 1 month. So what you have to do is be very careful with the material you choose when starting out as a new Male Escort. This piece is written in an attempt to lead the escort newcomer into reading this great book by an anonymous escort from London called “How To Be A Successful Male Escort: Without Having Film Star Looks”.
This book is a gigolo masterpiece. It is written by a man that is 5’9 and looks like he just got out of a 12 round fight with Mike Tyson, but he is filthy rich and super successful. Here are the sort of “rules” and tips that you can see in his book:
· How to decide if becoming an escort is for you.
· The pros and cons of working out of an escort agency or being an independent gigolo
· The 4 great myths of being a Male Escort
· How to choose the right escort agency if you decide on following this path
· What type of women to expect
· How to ensure your client asks for you again and again (This one tip alone can bring you huge rewards)
· What to wear. This is more important than you think
· Personal grooming is paramount. Attention to detail is the name of the game here and you’ll discover The 6 steps to being your absolute best!
· How to get started as an independent escort
· How to protect your identity by choosing a perfect “stage name”
· How to screen clients
· How to work from home
· How to assure your safety as an independent Male Escort
· How to have the right attitude
· How to market yourself on the net
· What women expect.
All these tips and a lot more are in the palm of your hand. All you need to do is Google the name of the book and download it for the measly price of $27.97. if you do not take my word for it, there are tons of testimonials about this great find. Remember, to become a successful Male Escort, you need to be very, very good at what you do and this book will begin your path to escort wealth.
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Tuesday, December 16th, 2008
You can research all you want on how to become a successful Male Escort. You can go on-line and read books about the male escorting industry. You can personally go to a Male Escort Agency and portray yourself as someone who has what it takes and ask proactive questions about being a gigolo. But if you do not have the right mindset, you will not get far. Having the correct attitude is the most important thing when it comes to being a Male Gigolo.
Even though the success behind becoming a Male Escort is seldom seen, if it does “pop its head out”, it usually does after a couple years of hard work and patience. But there is one type of mindset that you need to have in order to see success in the independent escort business. You must think that you are the very best escort on god’s good earth and that your clients will never meet or see anyone like you. You have to dazzle, hypnotize and mesmerize your women in order for them to NEVER think of going to another gigolo. Treat them as they are your queen and you are at their beck and call. Be interesting and charming in conversations, have etiquette when dining together, be confident with your demeanor, be smooth and romantic in the bedroom. All these actions will help you achieve Male escort greatness.
So if you are a Don Juan that is ready for a new woman everyday or just a part-time gigolo who only wants 2 or 3 clients, remember that attitude is everything. If you know women at all, you will realize this in less time than it took the US to realize Bush was an idiot. You can even look like Yoda from Star Wars and still be a rich and successful Male escort. It is all about personality and what you do with it.
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Monday, December 15th, 2008
Even though working as an Independent Escort can sound like an awesome gig, being employed by a Male Escort Agency is usually the best way to go. Of course you have the fact that you have to be reporting to someone that probably has you on a tight rope. They know these Gigolos are the path to their riches and they usually do not lose sight of that. But the strengths are the fact that you do not have to worry about building a base of customers. They are already there and willing to hand out tons of cash for pleasure. You also get to form a bond with the other guys in the agency, and some of them end of being a second family to each other. I guess they would feel like if they needed to share some thoughts one day, they would be able to speak to someone that goes through the same escorting problems they go through.
On the other hand, being a self made Gigolo is more about the hard work and getting your own clientele. This can seem very rewarding if ultimately, the sum of money in the bank account at the end of the month meets the Escorts standards. But it is not very easy to build your own customer data base in the Male Escorting industry. It is a very cruel and competitive business which requires a short term memory and a cold heart. What I mean by “cold heart” is that this is a business that does not come with emotions. It is a basic interaction of people which uses money as the final objective. That is it. There is no love and there is no hate. It takes a rare breed of person to be able to use these traits. But if a new Escort does break down the “brick wall”, and masters the business, I can assure you that, since this business is all about references and contacts, this Male Gigolo will be a very busy boy with lots of cash at his disposal.
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Sunday, December 14th, 2008
I have mentioned previously that being a Male Escort has its intrigue and its desirable mystery. But it is not all fun and games. The Male Escort business can be very demanding and very cruel. It is the only profession (aside from being a drug dealer) that need to have two cellular phones. Therefore; you could imagine how exciting, but tense, a beginning Gigolo must feel. I will try to share some of those feelings of an anonymous Escort with a few words.
This London native explains how people get the wrong idea of the Escorting industry. They believe that is our last resort. But this gentleman has a Masters, a loving family background and a “real job”. Actually, it was through his job that he became intrigued by the Escorting style of living. He states that before his first Escorting Job, he stood outside the client’s house for 20 minutes trying to talk his way out of it. After a few weeks of excitement, the novelty wares off because there are no feelings involved. It actually becomes a simple transaction, Buyer vs. Seller. It became a lifestyle, not a job, in which he became a “salve boy” to these 40-60 year old women. Working for an Escort Agency didn’t seem so thrilling anymore to this young lad.
He started to realize that the secrecy and lies were catching up to him. He came to see that Escorting was not for him, that at first, when that second phone rang, he became jittery and nervous, waiting to see who he might encounter this time. But after a while, that second phone was just a reminder of him cheapening himself by selling his morals and values for sex. Like I said before, being a Male Escort is fun for many, but it is not for everyone.
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Saturday, December 13th, 2008
Most people think “Male Escort” and they probably imagine a Brad Pitt type or a Johnny Depp style that makes women melt into a puddle of “come do with me what you will”. Even though lots of the gigolos in the male escorting business are hard bodied hunks that will dazzle the female spirit, it is not a necessary trait to have if you want to be a successful male escort. I will talk a bit about how this 35 year old, 5’9”, thin framed guy has the secrets to becoming a famous male Gigolo.
He starts out by mentioning that men are in high demand in the growing male escorting industry. Actually, demand surpasses the supply. There is just not enough information out there on becoming a successful gigolo. You cannot just pick out the course in the Admin line at your nearest Community College. You need to do a lot of research and you need to know your niche. But you do not have to be a Hollywood star to get your swerve off. You need to remember one thing gentlemen, we as men, have a much different criteria than women. We tend to lean towards the physical features when choosing a female escort. Women tend to fall more towards the personality side. They look at sense of humor, character, dignity, and of course, class.
Female clients are looking for a versatile man that is obviously not ugly, but not necessarily Antonio Banderas in “Desperado”. They want a man that understands them while in the presence of their company, not just a man that has a six pack and looks like a Greek God with his shirt off. So if you think that you possess these escorting qualities, and you are fascinated by this job (doesn’t actually feel like work-more like a series of adventures) do not sign up for Male Escorting 101 (there is not one) do some thorough research and give it a shot. You never know if becoming a gigolo is your calling.
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Friday, December 12th, 2008
As I mentioned before, The Male Escorting business is one that can give you a sense of a secret power that not too many people have. Aside form either being an Independent Male Escort or an Escort that relies on an agency and an established client base, it is a job that depends mostly on performance. If the Gigolo performs well, his name will be passed around the circle of women who enjoy this type of service. You do not see too many people that are already in the limelight, expose themselves fulltime to this profession. But there is always an exception for everything. And this exception happens to be one of the most feared men in the world.
Mike Tyson has decided to stop his bruising ways and join the Male Escorting Industry. And he didn’t waste any time at the bottom. Mike went straight to where the gold is. Legendary Hollywood Madam Heidi Fleiss has agreed to give Mike Tyson a shot of becoming one of her elite male Gigolo. She said to him” You’re going to be a stallion. It’s every man’s fear that their girlfriend will go for Mike Tyson”. I don’t think it’s as fearful as running into Tyson in a dark alley, but it still would not be fun to know that your girl tasted the likes of Mike. The fact is that this Male Escorting gig is not a publicity stunt. Mike really wants to do this. He mentions, “I don’t care what any man says, it’s every man’s dream to please every woman-and get paid for it”. I cannot argue with you there Mike.
So you see that once in a while, there is a huge exception to the rule. Being a working Male Escort usually comes with anonymity and the chance that the individual will have to lead a double life. But in this case, Iron Mike has broken that secrecy barrier and has come out publicly to say he wants in. Just remember Mike, you can nibble on some ears, but you cannot bite them off.
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