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Archive for January, 2009
Sunday, January 11th, 2009
Have you ever kept a secret from your family and then wondered how it got out? I am pretty sure that you have. If you have not, you are probably leading a very dull life. Some secrets are not that easy to keep. On the other hand, some secrets, if kept correctly, are very easy to keep. I believe that being part of the Male Escort industry is somewhere in between. If you know what you are doing, if you know your clientele and if you know the type of people that are in you family, I do not think that you should have a problem. The following story is about a male gigolo that started out well but could not keep his secret life very long.
Let’s call our professional male escort “Jerry”. We call him that because we need to keep anonymity. Jerry was a very outgoing male escort. He was very good at pleasing his clients but he never did the correct research as to who he was dating/ servicing. He became so good at what he did that it got way over his head. He started getting arrogant and way to confident. Therefore, his downfall was a shortcoming. One day, Jerry received a phone call from a very fancy woman. She mentioned that she got his ad from the web site that he had built a while back that he forgot about because now he was working with a male escort agency. He had not done independent male escort work for quite some time, but since she was willing to pay him a whole bunch of money for just one night, Jerry did not negate the offer. Well… he should have. It turns out that the woman that met up with Jerry was his cousin “Shirley” from his mother’s side. So guess out, secret was out, Jerry was in deep crap with his family and his job was lost. You should always research your clients in this type of business. This is free advice from your friendly neighborhood Male Escort writer.
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Saturday, January 10th, 2009
We all know what the consequences of having unprotected sex can have. It is something that we, as humans, do not even want to imagine. It is something that we preach to our children day in and day out; after we realize that they are sexually active. There are seminars all over the US expressing to our adolescents how important it is to practice safe sex. But what is really good to know is that more Male Escorts on the net and out of male escort agencies have adopted the role of safe sex educators with their clients.
Jeffery T. Parsons, who is the Director of Hunter’s Center for HIV/AIDS Educational Studies and Training (CHEST), initiated this study ,” The Classified Project” in 2000, along with co-authors Juline Koken and David Bimbi. They interviewed about 40 Male Gigolos about their relationships with their clients. They mentioned that they were concerned with the stereotype given to the Male Escorts, since most publications attribute the spread of HIV/ AIDS to them. But those were surveys done for street male escorts/ hookers. They wanted to concentrate on the professional male escorts soliciting sex on the net. They found out that these men were not being unsafe, but were educating their clients on safe sex. Parsons also found out that these men were not becoming male escorts for survival, but rather to pay for their education, housing, gym memberships and vacations. Parsons called the Male Escorts in his findings “vectors of safer sex education”.
Even though we know this type of work is more susceptible to HIV/ AIDS because of how much sex is involved, it is very good to see that the Male Escort industry is doing something that involves safe sex education, and more importantly, saving lives.
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Friday, January 9th, 2009
It is not vey easy to fool someone many times with the same thing. Unless that one thing you are doing remains consistent and true, it is very difficult to continue to lie to someone after they have seen something else. Let me explain what I am talking about. The following story is about a middle of the road Male Escort who started out his career working for a Male Escort agency and acting as a very mature Male Escort. The thing was that our Male Gigolo started to ware out and get tired of the secret lifestyle he had to lead.
In order to maintain anonymity, we will call our Male Escort “John”. John started to get very tired of his lifestyle. He started to burn out. As I mentioned, the Male escort industry is not for everyone. So he decided to pull a fast one on one of his best clients. This lady spent over $200,000 a year on John. But she was of the old variety and he simply began to hate his job when he had to come in physical contact with her. What no one knew is that John had an identical twin brother that was the black sheep of the family and that was looking for some extra cash. Therefore, John decided to show his brothers the ropes of being a professional Male escort in less than two weeks. It was in less than two weeks before that would be his next date with his veteran client. John went through some basic pointers and sent his twin brother off. It began to work for a while but then the Male escort agency started to get calls from the client expressing her dissatisfaction with John because he seemed like he wasn’t showering and it was nothing like John to have body odor. That’s when the agency started to spy on John and then saw him make the switch at a hotel. It was good while it lasted for the brothers but Game Over for the twins now.
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Thursday, January 8th, 2009
It is not vey easy to fool someone many times with the same thing. Unless that one thing you are doing remains consistent and true, it is very difficult to continue to lie to someone after they have seen something else. Let me explain what I am talking about. The following story is about a middle of the road Male Escort who started out his career working for a Male Escort agency and acting as a very mature Male Escort. The thing was that our Male Gigolo started to ware out and get tired of the secret lifestyle he had to lead.
In order to maintain anonymity, we will call our Male Escort “John”. John started to get very tired of his lifestyle. He started to burn out. As I mentioned, the Male escort industry is not for everyone. So he decided to pull a fast one on one of his best clients. This lady spent over $200,000 a year on John. But she was of the old variety and he simply began to hate his job when he had to come in physical contact with her. What no one knew is that John had an identical twin brother that was the black sheep of the family and that was looking for some extra cash. Therefore, John decided to show his brothers the ropes of being a professional Male escort in less than two weeks. It was in less than two weeks before that would be his next date with his veteran client. John went through some basic pointers and sent his twin brother off. It began to work for a while but then the Male escort agency started to get calls from the client expressing her dissatisfaction with John because he seemed like he wasn’t showering and it was nothing like John to have body odor. That’s when the agency started to spy on John and then saw him make the switch at a hotel. It was good while it lasted for the brothers but Game Over for the twins now.
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Wednesday, January 7th, 2009
I have written about many things involving the Male Escort industry. I have given tips about how to become a very successful Male Gigolo. I also have reported some news about the Male Escort business that was humorous, informational or just plain unbelievable. I think it is about time to dig into a real Male Escort agency. The following will give you a glimpse of how a Male Escort agency works, its benefits and what they expect from their employees. It is seen from the eyes of the employer.
Lavender Escorts is a new website for straight Male Gigolos, masseuses, and any other males in the adult entertainment industry that provide M2F services. Lavender does not decide what services you provide, your rate, or availability. Their goal is to provide an affordable, efficient means for male escorts to remain independent while receiving all of the benefits of a traditional escort agency. They allow you a means to advertise, exchange ideas with others in the adult entertainment industry, and maximize earning potential. They feature a discussion board with a variety of topics and resources so members can network with other providers as well as clients. It is a safe way both parties can socialize without worrying about the stigma. They actively advertise through several methods for their members. Their job is to get their escorts as many clients as possible and exhaust all advertising avenues. These are some of the benefits that Lavender Escorts posted on their website:
• Lower cost than a traditional escort agency.
• We advertise in your local area.
• Ability to advertise online without being online.
• More exposure than advertising on your own.
• Newsletter with resources and adult industry information.
• News and regular updates of adult industry information.
• Online booking (coming soon).
• A private e-mail addresses i.e. yourname@lavenderescorts.com.
• Your own website you can use for advertising.
• Client review area (coming soon).
• Member area which includes
• Resources
• A Discussion Forum
• Adult Employment Opportunities
• Development Center
• Upcoming Events & Conventions
Basically, in this short piece, I just wanted you to get a look at the things that a certain Male Escort agency wanted for their employees. We know that not all the same Escort agencies provide the same services, by looking at Lavender Escorts, we get a chance to see how one works.
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Tuesday, January 6th, 2009
Imagine yourself getting it on with a certain individual for the first time. What are the types of things that go through your head? Do you get nervous? Even though you have done this before with other individuals before, doing it for the first time with someone always causes ¨butterflies¨. Sometimes, these ¨butterflies¨ can cause nausea, or sometimes you use them to your advantage and have things spark even more. The following story is a true tale of a Male Escort on his first night of getting naughty with a high end female client that was not that attractive.
¨Steve¨ is going to be the name of the Male Gigolo in this episode. We have to keep everything anonymous due to the secrecy of the business. Steve was a normal, single guy with good looks working at a pizza parlor that was going nowhere. Therefore, Steve decided to do something glamorous and risky with himself. He decided to call up a male escort agency and offer his services. Since he was in good shape and was also a bit attractive (no Brad Pitt), they took him up on it because he had a certain charm. Steve will never forget his first night. Since this escort agency had guts and wanted to know what Steve was made of, they threw him to the wolves’ first night out. They knew that this very wealthy, high end woman would want to score with him and they knew she was very old and unattractive. Trying to be the most professional male escort he could be, Steve accepted the job (had no choice) and went on his way. The night went fine. He met all types of powerful people where they dined and she was very good company. But when it was time to dim the lights and hit the sheets, Steve froze. Two buckets of vomit later, Steve returned to the agency, the agency lost a client and Steve was back in the pizzeria. Needless to say, the male escorting industry is not for everyone.
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Monday, January 5th, 2009
Has it ever occurred to you that you arrange a date with a girl and then she comes late? I am willing to bet it has happened to you more times than when she arrived on time. But I bet it has not happened on a date that was miles away and that you had to be taken by airplane. I also bet that it was not a date that you were being paid for. Meaning someone was hiring you as a professional Male Escort to provide any needed services. The next news story is about a female that hired a male gigolo named Travis Peter Vrhovnik to get busy with a friend of hers.
The alleged victim, who shall remain anonymous, appeared to have hired Mr. Vrhovnik´s professional escort services for a female friend of hers while on holiday in the Nelson district of New Zealand. The alleged victim had booked airline tickets and a hotel room for the mature male escort and for her friend. But when the male escorts flight was delayed, the friend became very irritated and left the hotel. Afterwards, Mr. Vrhovnik became a lot more angry then the lady friend and approached the alleged victim with a kitchen knife and demanded the $500 that was discussed earlier. The alleged victim feared for her life and went straight to the authorities. After some charges were filed, Mr. Vrhovnik appeared in the Nelson District Court to plead not guilty to blackmail charges. It seems like assault charges were either not filed or dropped.
Even the secret world of Male Escort can not stay away from the headlines once in a while. One of the most important things in this business is secrecy but even anger can get the best of these professional once in a while. I mean, who wants to travel to the other side of the country by plane and be stood up while ¨on the clock¨. I surely do not, but I also would not have approached the person who stood me up with a knife. It seems like a lesson learnt.
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Sunday, January 4th, 2009
How many times have we, as men, lied to our women? How many times have we made up for those lies because they were considered little white lies, never involving cheating, or being gay? They were just lies that made us look foolish for lying. They never hurt anyone. For example, I forgot to do the laundry because I was working overtime, when actually you were watching the game. Even though it is still a lie that will get her upset, she will not leave you for it. The following is a Male Escort confession made by a professional Male Escort who has been working for a mature male escort agency for nearly 9 years.
The man that I am about to write about has been a very successful Male Escort for almost a decade now. The catch is that he is also married, has 3 children (2 daughters and 1 son) and was carrying a $150,000 annual salary job when he decided to spice up his life by becoming a Male Gigolo. Since he worked for a very successful insurance company, he didn’t need to make an excuse every time left the house with a designer suit on. Since he was a man that traveled a lot, he didn’t need to make excuses when he left his family for the weekend or for the week. But remember that being a Male Escort requires lots of hidden talents not everyone has. He managed to lie to his family for almost ten years, but when he got greedy, which meant leave his full time job to pursue escorting permanently, his wheels came off. He needed to get a second cell phone because he couldn’t receive calls at work anymore and that’s when one day he placed it in a place in which one of his daughters could find it (play room) and it went straight to mom. The rest is history. This is just a little story to make you think before you make drastic decisions involving others.
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Saturday, January 3rd, 2009
It takes lots of guts to become a Male Escort. It takes even more guts to become an independent male escort. These are the guys that do not attempt to get involved with a Male Escort agency, the type of guy who is not interested in starting with an already formed and dependable client base, the type of guy who wants to and needs to start from scratch. The following confession is about a mature male escort, we will call him ¨Ron¨, who was given the bait and switch routine.
Ron has been independently escorting on his own for about 6 years now. He was an experienced escort who knew what he wanted and had established a client base for most escorts to be envious about. He has been wined and dined by the very fanciest, high echelon women you can imagine. In the male escort circle, he is regarded as one of the very best. But one night, his reputation would change forever.
Ron remembers that night better than his first. It was a beautiful summer night in Miami and he didn’t have a gig that night (most independent male escorts are very picky once they hit a certain rank amongst escorts so they do not give themselves work every day). Right before he was about to hit the town on his own, he got a call from a very wealthy woman or so she says. She said she heard about how good he was and wanted to offer him double his rate for the last minute call. He obviously agreed and when they met up at her favourite 5 star hotel, she turned out to be a crazy maniac that had lost his girlfriend to a Male Escort and wanted to get revenge on the first one he could find. He was so enraged that he almost ended up raping Ron. The story finished with Ron calling the cops and our vengeful pal getting 3-5 for attempted rape and battery.
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Friday, January 2nd, 2009
Even though what you are about to read is old news, it is news that has to do with the Male Gigolo industry right here in our Hollywood doorstep. It has to do with a very famous singer/ actress that ended up hiring a professional male escort by mistake, or so she says.
Jessica Simpson, famous for many gold records and her success in The Dukes of Hazards, seems to be very desperate to get a male companion. It turns out that after her sad break up with popular singer John Mayer, Jessica logged onto the internet to see if she could meet a man that was worth hanging out with and maybe end up being something for the future. The picture she found of this man on the net was from Los Angeles and she thought that he looked ideal for her to meet. But when they met for dinner, she found out the sad truth. She had hired a professional male escort or hooker so she said. This guy was only interested in a business transaction, which basically grossed her out. She told US TV that she was ¨sexually frustrated which was the reason she had spent most of her time on the net looking for interesting guys. A source added that Jessica said that she was really not that desperate and that she had told her Male Gigolo to ¨go to hell¨. This unfortunate incident, as she described, has turned her off the web. She cannot believe that there are actual professional Male Escorts out there.
So you see, there are actual Hollywood stars that have no clue about the Male Escort business. They are hiding in their own cruel world and think that only women prostitute themselves. Open your eyes Jess! There are many men out there who would love to get into your pants and into your purse.
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Thursday, January 1st, 2009
I am going to use this time to talk about 4 major tips that you should follow if you would like to become a successful Male Escort. Remember that this business is not for everyman and almost 90% of the men that try it DO NOT succeed. In order to become a wealthy and famous Male Gigolo, try to follow these next 4 steps.
Use your bed only for sex and sleep. They call it a bedroom for a reason. Once you invite books and a television into your bedroom, the first thing that will suffer is your sex life. Keep the lights fixed low and the furnishings and fabrics rich and inviting so that as soon as you step into the room the scene is already set either for a hot night of passion or a luxurious sleep.
Set time aside. If you begin to leave sex for chance, and waiting for both of you to be in the mood, you might leave sex out of your life all together. Book a slot in your schedule even if it is only for a half hour, divide that by two and maybe give each other massages that will most likely lead to foreplay.
Dress the part. You need to let your lady know that you mean business with the way your attire looks. Make the effort to dress the way she likes and she will definitely know it. When you start to undress, ask her for help. This is very seductive! Try to alternate between what you enjoy and what she enjoys. You should find this part fun.
Enjoy yourself. Sex should never be a chore. Your confidence is a vital contribution to a good and varied sex life. So look forward to any session as an opportunity for you to get as much as of it as you will be giving her. Sex should be a win: win experience.
Like I have mentioned before, these are not all of the things you need to do to become a successful Male Escort but they are very, very important.
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