Confessions of a Self-Made Male Gigolo

If you're familiar with the name Deuce Bigalow, you're familiar with the concept of a gigolo or male escort.

At least a disastrous and comedic version of a male escort, anyway.

In the real world outside of the silver screen, the life of a male gigolo bares very little in common with Rob Schneider's character, but the few friends that I have confided to about my work as a male gigolo have usually responded by saying, "You mean like that Rob Schneider movie?"

No, I don't!

For the sake of the many other male escorts and male gigolos that face a similar ignorance, I've decided to put this short piece together to tell you what a male gigolo really is, and just how I became one.

The Male Gigolo, or Male Escort

Gigolo or escort, they both boil down to the same thing (though admittedly, thanks to Rob and friends, using Male Gigolo is a bit fuax pas). More often you'll hear us refer to ourselves as Male Companions or Male Escorts, though we do still work under the title of Male Gigolo.

To get an idea of what you're average male gigolo or male escort is like, I suppose you could take Rob Schneider's idiot character and invert his qualities. We are, more or less, somewhere on the opposite end of the spectrum as the poor and inept Deuce. We are professionals, but we are not cold. We are mature, but we are not prude. We have a wide range of social skills and grace that allow us to easily play the roll of companion to women, no matter how high or low that roll places us in the social strata. We're comfortable attending prestigious state events, and we're just as comfortable taking our lovely women out for a romantic yet simple dinner.

Not all male gigolos are created equal, though. I would place myself in the more chic category of male escort, and know several others that would never do so. They prefer working with middle-class women, while I prefer upper-class, sophisticated women. As a male gigolo, however, I don't always get to choose. Social prowess is an asset that no male gigolo can live without. It allows us to go anywhere and be anything to the beautiful women that contract our services.

So what types of men are drawn towards joining male escort services for women or becoming independent male gigolos?

The answer to that is pretty complicated. There is no real "type" that is destined to become a male gigolo. A male gigolo is created out of a combination of forces and events, it is part chance and part desire. With the advent of internet communities and services like www.GuysForLadies.com, however, the latter has become more important then the first. In the past, becoming a male gigolo required you to be in or at least to have contact with certain social networks and circles. Without that vital contact, it was nearly impossible to break into the field and succeed as a male gigolo, and even harder to do so without joining a male escort service for women.

I'm a perfect example of a male gigolo of this newer breed, and actually began my career through the very site I mentioned, www.GuysForLadies, a website that lets willing and interested male gigolos and the women that seek their services find one another.

Now that we know what a gigolo is, let's talk about how to become a male gigolo and how to find a male gigolo online.

How To Become A Male Gigolo

I suppose the best way for me to tell you how to become a male gigolo or male escort is to share my own experience with you.

I've always been a socially keen man, capable of playing any role in any type of company. I could be the handsome, quiet and sophisticated man at a cocktail party or the outgoing and friendly man at a family dinner. Since I was a kid I knew how people wanted to be talked to, and just from being in a place and with a certain type of people, I could pick up how to carry and present myself.

I've also had a very passionate love for women of every type, age and background. More than just the sex, which as a male gigolo or male escort can be a part of your job, I love being around them. I enjoy being their company, joining them to have a good time. Perhaps Deuce Bigalow, in some ways, captures this part of what it is to be a male gigolo or male escort, though again, his case is a drastic comedic exaggeration.

Basically, before being a male gigolo, I already had the character, disposition, and desire. My background, however, put me squarely out of contact with the male escort agencies that could open the door for me. Luckily, I found www.GuysForLadies.com and was able to open that door myself.

Male gigolos of all ages use this site to create a profile and essentially put themselves in a visible ?market' for women to find their services. In my case, www.GuysForLadies.com was an excellent option, as I live in London and it has a special focus on serving the London male escort agency for women market.

I followed the steps on the website, created my account, added some photos and in a few days started getting messages from women interested in my male escort services. I chose one that I felt most comfortable with and followed up, and a week later had my first ?gig' as a male gigolo. I was, that night, a simple companion for a wealthy woman. She took us out to dinner at a very fine restaurant, where we enjoyed wine and a few hours of conversation. After dinner, I went home with her and we continued our conversation, among other things.

For an enjoyable evening, some of the best wine I've ever, to this day, enjoyed, and a wonderful night spent with a beautiful and sophisticated woman, I made nearly £600.

My new life as a male gigolo, working without a male escort agency skimming off of my rates, was born.

For those seriously interested in either becoming a male gigolo or male escort for women, or those women looking for real, mature, and professional male gigolos that can respond to their needs, you need look no further than www.GuysForLadies.com.

Just remember, you won't find any Deuce Bigalows hanging around.